So as I was getting ready for college today, I was listening to the radio I think it was 92.3 fm? They were talking about whether you know if “once a cheater always cheater”. I really wanted to call them and give them my point of view on this, but of course my call didn’t go through (as always). Which led me to blog =). I don’t think this is a true topic. Actually it depends on the situation to be honest. I personally can speak for myself in this case.
I have been cheated on and I have cheated others. I hate to admit it but it is true. It’s not something I'm proud of but I'm pretty damn sure all of us have cheated at one point or another. We all cheat for like a reason, some of us cheat just to get back at them and some of us just can’t control our wonderful crazy raging hormones. Is it a valid reason to cheat? Obviously not when we even know it’s going to hurt.
As far as I remember, I cheated on my ex-boyfriend, because he wasn’t treating me right and he was cheating on me anyway. So I felt neglected and I felt I wasn’t a good girlfriend, so I went to seek out help. Of course, things didn’t turn out the way it did, and things did happen which really put my relationship on the edge. But it didn’t matter anymore because we eventually broke up and we went our separate ways. Even though this was a good thing that had happened to me, something bad happened too. I wasn’t able to keep a good stable relationship; I would eventually cheat on the poor guy. I would get like such a rush and I felt pretty cool. Karma’s a bitch, and it came at me for every time I cheated on a guy. Rumors went wild in my school; people started making fake Facebooks for me. It was really bad; I went to a total depression cause of that.
It all faded away though, but I wasn’t sure if any guy would want to date me (because people knew I was on that player status) I was too afraid to date because I wasn’t sure if was going to be faithful. But June 27th 2011, all of that changed. I’ve become a total different person. I’ve never been happier and like I wouldn’t want anyone else. I love this boy so much. He’s everything to me.
So what I guess I'm trying to say is, “Once a cheater always a cheater” isn’t true. You need to find that one person that can hold you down and truly love you. When you are loved and in love, the thought of cheating your man or girl will not even cross your mind. I promise you. I mean look at me, I wasn’t sure if I ever was going to stop but I did. I'm really proud to admit that was a cheater, I'm even prouder to know I have stopped for good.
-xoxo
